shine on

Today I ran into an old friend. We chatted casually about the standard things you talk about when you are awkwardly caught off guard: weather, how each of us has been, how school is, what program we're taking, how summers been, etc.
About 5 minutes into our conversation, I looked down and was immediately distracted by shiny, silver material that was hanging from her waist...
Shiny, lamé shorts.

This season, I've seen a lot of people sporting this peculiar look. No more is lamé confined to the spandex world of American Apparel, but it's gracing the shelves of mainstream stores like H&M and Zara, and showing up in the collections of designers such as Marc Jacobs. A beautiful pair of work shorts can now be purchased in a fabric that I worry may blind someone if the sun were to hit it at a certain angle.

Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not against lamé/shiny shorts. I think adding a shiny kick to your outfit is a great idea, and having a pair of these fun shorts will fit wonderfully into any summer wardrobe. However, I do believe there's a line you should be wary not to cross. Black or cream lamé shorts can look beautiful in the daytime, but I'd leave the silver and gold to the bar and club scene. And if you're going to sport the lamés in a professional environment, I suggest sticking to solid colours for your top and shoe. Your outfit will have a lot of kick without hinting that you're on your way to an 80's themed party at quitting time.



Just a quick, random thought on my part. What do you think about lamé/shiny shorts? Yay or Nay?

Love,
Sarah

pre-fall

Now that the sun is finally shining and there is no rain in sight, I find it almost cruel to be thinking of pre-fall 2011 collections. However, I know I haven't posted in awhile (blame it on school, work, intern..) so I had to share this delicious collection from T by Alexander Wang.

The layered looks are lovely, and I'm loving the neutral palette of the collection

The maxi skirts are making me want to try it out again... 

 What do you think of this collection? Or of looking at pre-fall collections in May?

Talk dirty to me

If you watch porn, you've heard it to the extreme.

The art of dirty talk. Some are masters, while others shy away. If your sex life is silent maybe you should try saying a few things to spice things up. But we're not all Sasha Grey, so don't be afraid to start out small. Easing yourself into it might be better, especially for you shy ones out there.

So when you think of dirty talk, the dirtiest words probably come to mind. That's fine, because maybe one day you'll find the courage to use them! But those aren't the words you have to use. Some people can't handle being called a whore in the sack, so ask first.

Dirty talk doesn't have to stay in the bedroom, but for the most part it should.

But if you're out with your guy one night, don't be afraid to lean in and tell him how bad you want him. He'll be itching to go home, and won't be able to stop thinking about it the whole night.

Then when you reach the bedroom, it can really begin.

Lets start with the basics.

"Harder", "faster", and "yes". Not only is it simple, but it lets your partner know you like what they're doing. You can decide on the tone and inflection to use...and whisper it in his ear...

Even the natural way you moan during sex can add to the experience.

Then there are bedroom nicknames. They can range from something sweet and saucy, to a bit more extreme. You wouldn't call your girlfriend/boyfriend a dirty little ho anywhere else, but maybe that's what they like in bed.

And when you're really into the action, you can start throwing demands around. Tell him what you want, and where you want it. If you're into swearing, that works too. I'm sure you can think of a few right now!

Other things you could throw in the mix...

Let him know if you want it rough.

Tell him how you feel...and how he feels inside you. You could say something along the lines of "I love it when you [------]", "I want you to [------]". You get the idea. Just keep it simple. We can leave the heavy hitting to the pros. And besides, half the time the dirty porno talk can get annoying.

Basically, just blurt out what you're thinking. If it feels great then let him know!

Dirty talk isn't for everyone though, so do what feels comfortable. And if you are into it, remember that you don't have to talk dirty EVERY time you go at it. It's just a thought for when you're feeling extra playful and in a dirty mood. It doesn't have to be serious, so if you giggle after asking him to smack your ass, thats ok. Keep it light and fun.

Enjoy.

-M

*image via relationshipblaybook.com and sodahead.com

how to: be short and rock a maxi

This season, floor length skirts are in full-demand and popping up more and more as the weather gets warmer. The idea of sporting a full-length skirt can be a bit intimidating, especially to shorter girls. I've never been too challenged in the height department, but I have short friends who gush about their love for the mass maxi trend but complain that they are "way too short" to wear a long skirt.

In my opinion, if worn properly, a maxi can work on anyone. Granted, its a bit easier to just throw on a long skirt and be on your way if you're say, 5'9, but if you really want to wear a maxi and you're not that tall, proper detailing goes a long way.

For starters, avoid busy patterns and designs. Opt for a solid colour (I vote black-but of course). It's more slimming and elongating.
Next, look for a high waisted maxi that can be paired with a crop top or tucked in shirt. Not only will wearing your maxi like this make your legs look longer, but it just looks good in general. One of my favourite ways to wear a long skirt.

And finally, wear the right shoe. Unfortunately, if you are short, wearing a floor-length skirt with flats won't get you anywhere. Pretty obvious. If you do want to sport the maxi, go for a pair of heels.

So, if you're 5 feet tall don't let it prevent you from trying new looks and wearing styles you like. If Mary-Kate can rock a maxi at 5'1, you can too.

Love,
Sarah

let's start a riot

Regardless of ones style, I think it's always appropriate to own at least one piece of clothing that you walk around in thinking "yeah, I look badass today". When I wear pieces with a bit of an edge, I feel great. A major confidence booster.
This year an edgy, punk look is in full swing. Not only is studded detailing still huge, but chunky boots and coloured hair (hello dip-dyed tips) are all the rage. And while I've always considered it to be somewhat of a "hipster"--for lack of a better word--look, I've been noticing it more and more in the collections of even the classiest designers.

What are your thoughts?

Love,
Sarah

[BAG: Miu Miu www.miumiu.com , JACKET: Burberry www.uk.burberry.com]

winter kate

I think I'm a little obsessed with Nicole Richie right now. I'm really impressed with the newest clothing coming from her Winter Kate line. It doesn't look as 'celebrity' designer as her previous work, and I am eying a couple pieces for myself.

I love that she's stayed true to her boho style, but cleaned up the look by using minimal fringe and nice clean lines.

The seventies vibe in all the pieces is what really has me lusting over the clothes. Bell sleeves, loose shirts and large prints - perfect summer wear.

 

What do you think of Nicole Richie as a designer? Or celebrities who design clothing in general, I guess. 

that something white (investment #2)

I think there is one thing that is way overlooked when most people shop - and it's an item that is so easy to pull off and so eyecatching. It's the little white dress.

Sofia Clothing - Vancouver, BC

Every woman has (or should have) their special LBD that can be thrown on for any occasion. What I like about the LWD is the shock factor. Marilyn Monroe wearing her now iconic white dress made headlines. Women don't wear white dresses as often as they should, and rocking one will have you turning heads and looking fresh this summer.

Mix it up by pairing with a neon purse or accessories. If you're looking for something more unique than a simple LWD, find one with lace insets or cutouts in the sleeves or waist.

Investment #1

I'm a huge advocate of buying things cheap, as long as they work for a season or two. I mean, who really knows how long our now-beloved crop tops or colour-blocked dresses will be in style for? However, there are some items where spending a little more of your hard earned cash will be worth it in the end. I think that right now is the best time to spend a little more, especially for students. We've all finished school and the first paycheques are rolling in. Pretend you don't have to start saving (yet!) and hit up your favourite boutiques to pick up these pieces!

1. Classic Black Bag

A couple of weeks ago, Sarah went shopping and sent me a text questioning her decision on buying a bag. She wondered if a black bag worked for summer/spring. I immediately told her that a black bag is an everyday kind of piece - the colour goes with everything and it's easy to throw on if you don't feel like thinking about which bag to use.

I would pick up an oversized black tote, such as the Alexander Wang one pictured. I know it's a little pricey, but it won't fall apart after a couple uses.

P.S. Can you tell how obsessed I am with this bag? I've posted it way too many times!

Factory Girl

I think I'm in love.
Today I stumbled upon Erik Hart's Pre Fall'11 Collection. Created by the self-proclaimed contemporary artist, this collection is part of Erik's 'Factory' line (very fitting).
It's amazing.
Factory Pre-Fall'11 is minimalist, structured, and basically right up my alley. So far up my alley, in fact, that I had trouble deciding which photos to take from the website to show you.

The designs in the Factory PF'11 line are simple, but manage to look badass and stunning at the same time. Erik uses only a few shades (black, white, beige, grey, and creams) but the fabric and cut choices add massive range to the collection. I'm sensing a bit of a Gaga inspiration here.

According to Erik Hart's website: "The range [in the collection] focuses on Hart’s signature aesthetic and design approach. An exercise in balancing the tension created between contrasts and duality. The dichotomy of androgyny and femininity, high and low, vulnerability and confidence, restraint and excess."

Too. Good.



The line sticks to it's name and "factory" theme, and I love the fact that while many pieces are similar, there are small features that make each unique. As I've been saying, I'm all about minimalism right now, so I definitely want to get my hands on something from this stunning collection.
What are your thoughts? Are you as smitten as I am?

Love,
Sarah

[www.factorycollection.com]

Menage a trois

I've been hearing a lot of talk about threesomes lately it seems. Some of the stories have been good, and others...not so good. I'm always looking for something sexy to talk about, so I thought...why not blog about it?!

Threesomes aren't for everyone. You definitely need to be comfortable and confident with yourself and with your partner. If you hesitate at the thought...it's probably not for you. No worries, I'm not one for sharing, either...if you know what I mean.

If you're up for it there are definitely some ground rules to consider before hopping into the sack with a third party. Otherwise, things could get ugly...

First of all, you're obviously going to have a little game of tug of war over whether the extra in the bedroom is going to be male or female. How to sort this out? I can't say it would be easy, so you might have to resort to paper scissors rock! Most guys are pretty dead set on having the third be a female, but I know us girls can use our charm to get our way in almost any situation. You could even make a deal that next time you'll choose the other sex.

VS.

Then there is the question of how you're going to pick this lucky candidate. Rule number one: DO NOT under any circumstances choose a close friend. Unless you are certain things would pan out fine...but I've heard some horror stories. Of course, choosing a random out of a crowd isn't always the best decision either...unless you get to know them and after awhile propose a night in.

And of course, make rules of what each of you can and cannot do. Jealousy should not be part of this experience, so don't be afraid to set boundaries. If there is something you would rather not happen between your guy and the extra who was invited, just let him know. Hopefully he will do the same and let you know what makes him uncomfortable. But it is only one night. Which reminds me, if you do it again, the third party probably should not be a repeat. No strings attached should be a top rule in there...which means one time only!

And of course...leave no man behind! This is a threesome after all. Make sure everyone is involved otherwise someone could feel rejected. So share the love! But obviously share more love with the one you'll be going out to dinner with the next day.

And finally, make sure the third party leaves when the fun is over. No cuddles in threes, okay? It's awkward and weird. Lets leave it at that.

-M

*Photos via mademan.com and allwomenstalk.com

TNT 20th Anniversary

On Thursday night Justine and I had the pleasure of attending TNT's 20th Anniversary at their (massive) Hazelton Lanes location.

The event was open to the public, and I had no idea what to expect from it. I'd heard a lot of hype, especially about the fact that MTV's Dan Levy would be hosting (he did a great job-constantly mingling and smiling) and that Nicole Richie was on the guest list.

When walking into the gorgeous, two-storey Yorkville location I was instantly overwhelmed with how well-put-together the event was, and how many beautiful people were strutting around. It was crowded, but not overly, and everyone was relaxed as they shopped to the tunes of the in-house DJ and sipped their TNT Cocktails from the open bar (danger, danger!).

Everyone was very approachable and interested in talking about both my internship and Fashgasm. It was refreshing to be in that atmosphere. I met some very sweet people who shared with me their views on the fashion blogging community and were even able to give me some tips that I will be putting to good use. It was most definitely an inspiring night.

I brought Cameron with me (yes, I named my Canon) and snapped some pics of both the event and some fine dressed attendees. However, my attempts to snap a photo of one of my style icons, Nicole Richie, failed quite miserably. While she was at the party, I didn't run into her once. I so badly wanted to see what she was wearing, but the hundreds of other incredible outfits I saw that night definitely made up for it.
The front of TNT's Hazelton Lanes 18,000 sq ft location.
View of the patio - decorated in all white, with an open bar, many tables, and comfy couches set up for guests.
The shoes I almost purchased through loss of control. Amazing!


Two beautiful ladies and dresses! TNT employee Kristin in a rockin' hot pink dress and black wedges that I loved. We had a good chat about our blogs and social media obsessions.
Incredible hair and golden floral jacket (vintage). MTV's Nicole Holness

All in all, it was a great night. The event went off, seemingly, without a hitch and everyone had a fantastic time. While I didn't have a chance to try anything on, I think a day trip to Yorkville and TNT will be happening in the very near future.

Love,
Sarah

Pants + Skirts = Together Forever?

I'm all for layering.
In the cold months, you're bound to see me walking around wearing two shirts, a cardigan, a scarf, a jacket, and quite possibly another scarf on top of that. And while it's practical, I've always thought layering can look great too. From the baggy to the tanks (ah grade 10, 2 Hollister tank tops layered with an Abercrombie polo...ha...) I've always been a "layer-er".
However, I've recently toned it down and been really attracted to the minimal side of things. Not only is it easier, but it looks cleaner and it's comfortable for the warm weather. This is why what I'm about to discuss confuses me.

When I do layer, I only focus on the top half of my body. I don't layer pants (even the whole winter tights under jeans thing bothers me). And back a few years, when thick tights under skirts were all the rage, I partook in the trend for a while but realized it not only felt uncomfortable but, in my opinion, was a bit awkward. I like to stick to one pair of whatever on my bottom half.

This year, Chanel seems to have gone gaga for bottom-half layering. And I mean intense bottom-half layering. For both the Summer '11 and Resort '12 collections, Chanel has really been pushing pants and skirts. Together.

[top-summer'11,bottom-resort'12]

It's tough to say negative things about Chanel. And, really, some of these outfits don't look half bad (I really like the Resort '12 collection and colours). However, I can't see why anyone would want to wear a full pair of pants under a long, tight skirt. I would feel trapped and just plain uncomfortable. It seems so unnecessary, especially in the warm weather.

It's an interesting concept, but like I said, I'm a bit confused. What are your thoughts? Do you think we'll see people walking to work in trousers, a pencil skirt, and heels this summer?

Love,
Sarah

new fave designer!

Here's a little treat to brighten up your screen in the middle of your work day. Pierre Hardy's Spring 2011 line is delicious, luxurious and colourful. I'm loving the lines and shapes made on the shoes. Mu number one pick? The grey wedge with the yellow stripe along the back. I can't take my eyes off that sly pop of colour!

So who is Pierre Hardy? He's a shoe designer/stylist/artist from France and his lines are always lovely. He's worked on the shoe collections at Christian Dior, Hermes and Balenciaga. His shoes are so stunning because of his background in art. He takes influence from design, architecture and contemporary art to produce his unique and artsy shoes.

2006 was a great year for Hardy, when he won Designer of the Year by Footwear News and Best Design 2006 Shoes by Wallpaper Magazine.

What do you guys think of these shoes? Are you in love like me or are they a little too much for you?

I'll admit it - the first pair is un petit peu crazy for me.

tribal chic

Whenever I head to Free People's website, I always find myself getting excited about things and trends I would never even think of. Take, for example, this tribal lookbook.

Tribal is something I have been dead set against. To me, the prints remind me of those god-awful tribal tattoos people rock. 

And although I'm admitting a change of heart (because honestly, how cute is that fringe bag/leopard skirt/combat boot combo?), I'm still very much against tribal tattoos. 

I think I'm going to purchase that stunning grey dress in the top photo. Almossst work appropriate, but good for wearing wherever. !

Fierce. I love this girl.

Sorry for the photos with random arrows and lines through the sides - I couldn't find photos on the Free People website, so I just did a specific screen capture. Keeping it classy for you all, always!