Ladies love porn too!

Porn. I have a passion for it, really.

I've learned a lot about the pornography industry, and something that really interested me was the idea of feminist porn.

So what's that? Porn for women...made by women. And no, it's not all like this.

Actually, that whole trailer had me laughing uncontrollably. Well, that's what you get when you type "porn for women" into your search engine. Cheesy, right? Why is there an assumption that women want romance and soft music? What's with the soft core? Maybe some of us just want straight up raunchy sex? I may not speak for every girl out there, but Sasha Grey has got it going on. She also has reportedly left the porn industry, so that's a bit upsetting.

I've looked into feminist porn quite a bit, and the sex isn't all that different. But the making of is definitely interesting. Before filming, they get to choose who they are going to have sex with on camera. So, basically, you get a line up of potential suitors, and pick the one you would want to bring home from the bar any other night.

There's also more concentration on female pleasure. We're always waiting for the guy to get off, don't you get tired of the same old facial? Hello, the female orgasm is a million times better than some dude grunting and groaning (No offense, guys).

So maybe some feminists don't think feminist porn exists, but it's pretty difficult to classify. Tristan Taormino, a porn director, said so herself...you can check out some of her thoughts here!

Call it what you want, either way, porn is great. Admit it.

One pornographer I have come to love is Anna Span...

She has a killer website, you can check it out here but you better be over 18!

She's the perfect example of porn for women. And REAL porn at that. Not that there's fake porn I guess, but it's not flowery or cheesy. Sorry, but candles and low lighting isn't going to make a girl climax. Well, in my thoughts anyway.

Also, watching porn has been so stigmatized. Lets just drop that. Everyone does it. Girls do it. They just don't want to admit it. It's the same as masturbation...ladies like to keep that on the DL, you know what I'm saying?

But that's a whole other round I'll tackle next time!

I hope I've gotten you curious. Maybe you'll find a new passion in the same general playing field...but with a feminist twist?

-Mel