2012 is just around the corner, so I hope you have your best dresses picked out. It may be below zero but I think we can still create a little heat. I mostly mean between the sheets.
One of my favourite things about new years after the party dresses are the resolutions. Haven't we all gathered after the ball drops to whisper our plans, whether its hitting the gym or spending less on shoes (yeah, right). Sometimes a few are a bit out of reach but I have a couple of ideas that are definitely within reason if you are willing.
1. Get a little more va-va voom in the bedroom. For all of those in relationships, this is something that could take it to the next level. Don't get stuck in a rut. Spice it up if you haven't already. And the best part is you can start right when the clock strikes midnight. Fancy a kiss? Lay it on 'em and they'll be dying for more, and none of that "pecking" nonsense, I want PASSION! I want HEAT. If you're shy, get over it, a little PDA never killed anyone...I think.
2. Once the party ends you can really get to the good stuff. Happy new year sex, anyone? And share a little pillow-talk, too. Tell each other your new years resolutions. I must stress the importance of communication. If you want to become closer in the new year then you should consider some conversation following the whole ripping off each others clothes bit. I suggest a little truth or dare between the two of you. But avoid anything that may spark a fight! That would take the fun out of everything.
3. Invest in some sexy play time toys. Whether it's a barely there piece of lingerie or a vibrator, trying something new is always fun. I'm not recommending nipple clamps... unless you've reached that level, of course.
At the very least, try something new. Even just a new position can bring a whole lot of passion rushing back. So light some candles and get to it!
4. To my single people out there, let me just say, making a resolution to "get a boyfriend/girlfriend" is not a good one to go by. Enjoy single life while you have it, because telling yourself you NEED a partner is just ridiculous. You may also find yourself forcing relationships with people you don't even REALLY like. So a great resolution to go by is ENJOY life, let things happen, and if you meet the right person, that's a bonus. Forget about the ticking clock, instead, have some fun. Nothing wrong with a new years eve one night stand if you're up for it. We all need a little lovin' sometimes.
However, I can't stress the importance of independence. If you've had a rough year of dating, maybe 2012 will be a good time to take a break from it. As for the lack of sex, that is nothing a good vibrator can't fix. Focus on friendships this time around.
5. Be happy. I'm getting cheesy but starting the new year on the right foot is a good way to go. And if you're not happy, make a change. Whether its your relationship or you wardrobe.
What are YOUR new years resolutions?
-M
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