Trick or treat!

Halloween weekend has arrived. So do you want a trick or a treat?

Personally... I would like both.

I'm sure you're expecting to get a little scared this weekend, but I think a big part of Halloween is sex appeal. I mean, what other day of the year do you get to put on your sluttiest gear and head out the door without judgement (except maybe that look your mother gives you when she sees you're not wearing any form of pants).

I think there are maybe two exceptions. This is one:

You should save the naughty bits for the bedroom, instead of baring pretty much ALL of it at the bar. Just sayin'...

So if you're not being yourself for a night, this shouldn't end when the party does. Let your new found personality for Hallows eve take over and get a little freaky with your significant other.

Step one: Pick a sexy/freaky outfit

Step two: Be a tease and play your role. That means working your wild streak. We are bordering the line of fantasy and then completely knocking the fence down and getting savagely sexy here.

Step three: Have fun and great freaky, creepy, whatever you are feeling. Or I guess...whatever your character is feeling. And don't be afraid to bring it home all the way under the sheets.

Step four: Leave pieces of your costume on, even when things get hot and heavy. Maybe your heels or your cats ears, or more if you're really into the play.

And the most important element of all: DON'T TELL. Try and keep your dirty plans to yourself. Flirt all night and then surprise them when you get home. They're in for quite a treat, and I must say...I think it's better than candy.

So, what are your plans for Halloween? I would love to hear all the freaky details.

-M

*Photos via askmen, ziprage, sodahead

The Kiss

Everyone seems to overlook the one thing I find to be very important and even more sensual than the act of sex.

If there is one thing I love, it is kissing. Not so much the gross displays of affection (but don't judge, we're all guilty!)...more so the deep kisses you can share with someone in the morning, before bed, and of course...pre, post, and of course during some steamy sexy time!

There are certain kisses in certain places that can leave you feeling so tingly and charged, there's no way you won't moan. And don't be afraid to add a little tongue (emphasis on a little, because sometimes thats REALLY all you need).

While simply kissing each others lips is oh so nice, you can let your mouth wander to other zones that will make you stir with pleasure.

The ears;

Before you groan and ignore this, try! Biting and licking the lobe, gently caressing around the edge of the ear with your lips and tongue, I guarantee you will feel very different after trying. The ears are extremely sensitive...well at least for me they are. They never get any attention, except for maybe your headphones, so show your lobes some love!

The neck;

Obvious but never overdone. We all hate hickeys but those are easy to avoid as long as your partner isn't merely sucking your neck (how highschool). Licking and gently kissing all over the neck, including the back of the neck is pure bliss.

The chest & nipples;

Trace your tongue around the nipples, flick them with your tongue, too. And this is the area where I feel biting is definitely necessary when permitted. Try lightly though, it would be awful to lose one.

The stomach;

Sensitive areas, ah yes, they are wonderful. The lower you work your way down the more sensitive it gets. So go ahead and be a tease.

The inner thighs;

Just when they think they're getting the goods, you pull this trick. Not only does it drive your partner wild, but the inner thighs are also another pretty sensitive area that can garner good reaction if done correctly! Be gentle, a kiss is a lot more sensual and feels a lot better when you do it with teasing lips and a light tongue.

And if you aren't completely terrified or driven mad by the thought of it...

The feet;

Personally, I have a major problem with feet. But I'm very aware that there are many out there who have a foot fetish. SO if you feel the need to kiss his/her feet or thoroughly enjoy having your feet played with, then by all means, INDULGE! The bedroom is your playground!

That's all for now, but I'm sure you can think of some other places I need not mention that could also use a kiss...

-M

*images via gallerym.com, Cordisa Express, 955klos.com, liquidsilverbooks.com

How to: cool down when things start to heat up...

Summer has obviously arrived if you didn't feel that wall of heat hit you these past few days! For those of you suffering without air condition, I feel your pain.

So now that the heat has arrived, I'm sure you don't want the heat in the bedroom to fade. Sweaty romps are fun and all but we could all use a few tricks to cool down while turning the heat up...you know what I mean?

Let's face it, sex can be sweaty. Slippery limbs all around and sweat everywhere could be a bit of a problem. So lets talk cooling down...while still keeping it hot in a different sort of way.

First of all...ice cubes. Take a few and rub them down each others backs, stomachs, legs and arms. It gives you a nice chill, and definitely wakes you up if you have the summer heat sleepy feeling.

Up next...the simplest solution, ever. Get a fan and place it beside your bed. Rotating fans are preferable. It will blow cool air all over your bodies, keeping the sweat at bay.

There is also the good old shower sex. Quite a task, but a good solution to sweaty situations. You could even just hop in before or after hitting the bedroom for a cool down.

Another delicious solution is to have some cool fruits like melon and berries at the bedside. Pop one into each others mouths every so often. Another fun bedroom food is ice cream, popsicles and the like. Maybe a bit sticky if things get out of hand, but cool none the less!

Hope you are all enjoying the sunshine! I know I am.

-M

*Images via sodahead.com and hubpages.com

Transparent in the bedroom

Ok, so I might be delving a little into the fashion part of this gasm but I’m sure you will all appreciate it.

While browsing for some new summer items, I stumbled upon a little treat at Jacob that I think every guy would eat up.

What do you normally wear before getting in the sack with your guy? It probably doesn’t matter at some points, but this week lets make it count. Every girl wants to feel sexy, so why not rock some lace?

I prefer black myself, but they come in some other colours, too. They’re pretty great because you can wear it under your clothes without feeling ridiculous. Have you ever worn lingerie under jeans and a top? You’re pretty much itching to take it off, am I right? Smooth sailing with this piece. Simple and sexy are two of my favourite words.

Lingerie isn't of the utmost importance in the bedroom, but it's a nice treat every so often. The best part is that these are basically see through...I love that.

And while we're keeping it transparent in the bedroom...let's talk making things clear. He can see through your lace bra so why not let him see through your desires? I know us ladies love to make it difficult but why not tell him what you want? Overcome your shyness (that is, if you are shy) and take control. Not only will you get what you want, but he might be a little thrown off...guys tend to like control. Let's just take that into our own hands, shall we?

It's fun every so often, but sometimes you should still leave him guessing. Everyone loves a mystery.

Any questions? Let me know! I'd love to know what you're all thinking...

-M